Tuesday, August 29, 2017

Overcoming the Overwhelming

While pondering today’s post...thinking about situations in life which can feel overwhelming...I smiled at a previous post which came to mind. It’s one in which I told of our young grandson getting himself into a child-sized overwhelming situation. You may remember it. Thinking to have big fun, he had dumped not one, but several of his wooden puzzles into a big heap on the table. Immediately he realized much work would be involved in getting the pieces into their rightful places—and he lost interest altogether. Overwhelmed by the situation, he left the table and suggested that I should be the one to sort out the jumble of pieces! I decided, however, that this would not be in his best interest. He needed to be taught the importance of doing what was right (in this case- obeying Nana by putting his puzzles back in order). I decided to encourage him in this by helping him straighten them out. I placed one of the puzzles in front of his chair at the table and sorted through the mess to find all the pieces that went with that particular puzzle. He then came over and started putting all of those pieces where they belonged. We continued in this way until he had put all the puzzle pieces back in their proper places. I was very pleased to see everything nicely back in order- and so was he. :) What at first must have looked like an overwhelming task to the little fellow turned out to be easily overcome- with a little help.

Thinking on this again put me in mind of how we, as adults, can end up in overwhelming situations of our own- whether due to our sin or to trials the Lord sends into our lives for our sanctification. Even as Christians, we may become overwhelmed to the point of giving in to discouragement or even despair. Regardless of how hopeless our situation may seem, however, there is One who can help. In Isaiah 41:10 God encourages us with the following words, “fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” And just as I encouraged my little guy toward obedience, so does God encourage us to choose the right response in dealing with difficult situations of our own- through obedience to His word. Proverbs 3:5-6 admonishes us to “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.”

If we focus on our problem (no matter how big or small) and fail to trust in the Lord, we will easily become discouraged and thus blinded by our sin. (Giving in to discouragement and despair is failing to trust in the Lord, and thus a sinful response to our trials.) If we focus on the Lord and His Word however, we will be encouraged by his promises and guided by His Spirit. In Isaiah 42:16 God’s word reads,And I will lead the blind in a way that they do not know, in paths that they have not known I will guide them. I will turn the darkness before them into light, the rough places into level ground. These are the things I do, and I do not forsake them.” These are the things God does for those who, by His grace, determine “not to be wise in their own eyes, but fear the LORD, and turn from evil’ (paraphrase of Prov. 2:6).

Just as I did not put everything back to rights for our grandson, but guided him toward doing what needed to be done, so too will God guide us (by His Spirit and through His word) in the right direction- if we seek His wisdom, “For the LORD gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding; he stores up sound wisdom for the upright; he is a shield to those who walk in integrity, guarding the paths of justice and watching over the way of his saints” (Prov.2:6-8). James 1:2-4 admonishes us to respond to our trials in the following manner, “Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. 
 
When going through trials of various kinds, it is good to keep in mind, that God rarely works things out according to our expectations. [For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the LORD, For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts” (Isaiah 55:8-9).] However, we can be assured that... in the lives of His children… He is working through every situation (no matter how overwhelming) for our good--that ‘good’ being conformity to Christ. We can also be assured that He can lighten the load of our burden just as I helped to lighten the load of our grandson by helping him sort through his mess. “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:28-30). 1 Peter 5:6-7 tells us to “Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.” In Matthew 18:2-4 Jesus said, “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” May we truly come to Him with a child-like faith and trust as we seek His enabling power--to overcome any and all of our overwhelming situations.